Inspirations! :)

I just don't understand why people are so desperate till either they changed partner months after they broke up or kept changing targets just to : get into a relationship. You can always sense desperado easily, they confessed though they knew you not long ago, aggresively. and when you rejected, hunt for the next girl again.

What's the point of getting into a relationship then? Just to find someone to fill your loneliness? That's pretty selfish. To be in a relationship, you have to well prepared yourself mentally emotionally to make sure you can bring happiness and provide sense of security to your another half, only you confess. Love is finding someone that you cannot live without him/her. So that both of you all can perpetuates togther and build a good and long-lasting future.

Of course, I'm glad to see those couples who are happily together, shared their aspects of life and discuss everything together. That's ceratinly a good thing to see! ;) On the other hand, I too see people always complaint about their boyfriends/girlfriends;for taking things for granted, one often dominates the other by having strong control on them. More like a manipulator I would say. What's the point of having to endure so much pain, while both of you all just doesn't fits into each other mould?

The feel of love doesn't brings you far seriously, regardless of how strong the chemistry is.Though sayings always goes; love is blind. How blind is blind? If deep in your heart, you already knew that he/she is not your special someone, are you going to just comform your priciples and bend into their actions. Love needs tolerance and understandings from both side and is not about giving in. Don't rush into one if you ain't ready to make the commitments and sacrifices.Love is not just a rush of adrenaline ; short term hugs and kisses.

I'm sure along the way, the right one will come, which aptly fits into your lifestyle where you two sees the future together and complement one another as well as have a good outlook on life. Always remember, do not need to violate your own rule just to win someone's heart. Just be yourself, people will accept you and love you for who you are.Just hate those people who are pessimistic about studies and working life while there're so many interesting things to do in life. The world is big and can't wait to explore them!! :)

Just a piece of thought when my friend told me that her sister's housemate commited suicide after breaking up with the boyfee. What a sad and heartbreaking one; she is just too young to die and is blinded by all the feelings; while it's actually very minute when you look back. Hence diversify your life, do not focus on one; make time for friends and families too though the formal sounds tempting.

On the very contrary, my room mate told me her aunt which is 30 over years old got a boyfee is getting married soon. Before this, she was actually being questioned by the family members on her love life, typical question.I felt so happy for her. Her aunt gratuated from UKM 10 years ago and went back to Kuching for work. A few years later, she worked for Murphy Oil and is now currently under Exxon-Mobil. She is on project-based and her salary is amazingly tempting! 17k waohhhh!! A career woman and her husband is a British which is 10 years elder.

Forget all the craps that if women are too capable in work, men tend to avoid. So what? I think you need to have the good qualities and charisma to get a better one. I foresee a blissful life in them ;emotionally and finacially stable; also mentally prepared. It's better than those who married young and has to strive hard to make ends meet. What's more with children? By the time their children are grown up, half a century gone. As compared to my friend's aunt, they can enjoy their life even with children. Better exposure will certainly flood in.

Build your career and the best will come when you least expected it. Hope all is good for my internships! :)