I think the best way to communicate with my dad is to IGNORE every words he said.He offered no constructive ideas nor encouragements but the negativism. He can gets angry with you don't even know why, where the whole car knows he is at fault, but he will just go on his way. Everyone will just mumble behind.

If you really take his words seriously, and relate what he said to the incident ,and from there think further and deeper , you'll get insane.

It's always better to get the support from mum, siblings and friends. They will rationalize everything and let you to decide what is wrong or correct.

Oh well, perhaps the only good thing is to train my EQ higher. What you listened from him, is to throw out immediately !! straight away!!!

Just that I am trying to adapt and gets positive , he intervened! Just that I'm looking forward to work and internship everyday, he came out with things that brought me down! OH WELL, I WILL NOT THINK TOO MUCH FROM WHAT HE SAID, and GO ON WITH WHAT I THINK! I BELIEVE MY POSITIVE ENERGY IN MY MENTALITY IS GREATER THAN HIS!!! :) I will just forgive him for saying his offensive words!